badstar

A conversation that I had with someone recently left me thinking. (I know....that's dangerous, don't do that.) Who it was doesn't matter, they're not on LJ, don't think anyone here knows her anyway. But it was basically just about people's perceptions of others and stuff...

Basically...I'd like to know....

1. when you first met me, what were your first impressions of me? And under what circumstance did the meeting take place?(or if we haven't met, however you have communicate with me, livejournal, instant messenger, carrier pigeon etc what were your impressions based on that?)

2. have you found over time that your perceptions were correct? if not, how were they incorrect...or do you feel that they were correct, but I have changed over time...how have I changed?

4. what do you think of me now?

interpret these questions any way you see fit, say as much as you want. be completely honest, you will not hurt me. anythign you have to say, i've heard worse from someone else, or thought worse myself. i'm not looking for flattery, im looking for honesty. replies will be screened, but immediately unscreened *unless* you don't want them to be public. just say so.

Ultimately what i'm trying to figure out is how closely do others' views of me match my own?